Monday, December 29, 2008

Freecycle to the rescue


Freecycle saves my day again. Since I am very afraid that my clumsy hands will soon break the second French Press that I am using, and therefore means no coffee in the morning, I put a wanted ad on Freecycle. Two people responded, one with a small French Press, another with a small coffee machine.
We went to pick them up today, both are personal sizes, which is great for me, since Dan doesn't use any contraptions to make his drinks, he uses freeze dry crystal stuff or just scope the chocolate powder into hot water.
I am very thankful for this blessing, they put me in such a good mood that I even comply to Kioni's request to bake a cake, with chocolate frosting and sparkly sprinkles.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Lamenting

I am lamenting over my beloved French Press. While I was just writing about it last month, one of my two French Presses broke yesterday. It was sitting on a plastic bag after a morning breakfast rush, while I was cleaning up, I lifted the plastic bag, and glass part of the French Press fell into the stainless steel sink, it just went into pieces, so was my heart.

Now I have one left, if this one breaks, I will have no recourse in making a nice cup of coffee. I will still go through life, but a bit tougher without coffee.

Thursday, December 25, 2008


First Christmas in Aberdeen. While we don't have much money to buy gifts, the good Lord has provided everything we need. We were able to find Kioni gifts from Freecycle, plus the multiple gifts from the U.S., we have a wonderful gift-opening time. And of course, we have good food too.

While Dan and I didn't exchange gifts, we each got food we like, for me it's ham, for Dan, a big chunk of cranberry cheese from Costco, and for Kioni, she really wanted smoked salmon. So we had a feast!

God is good, and the best of all, we get to remember while we receive so many blessings, the biggest blessing of all is Jesus, who came to bless us till eternity.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Why we actually come to Aberdeen...





Well, with a disappointed heart, let me tell you the true reason why we come to Aberdeen - a hope of inheritance! OK, you know this is just a joke.
Well, not totally pulling this out of my head. Dan's father, who is deceased, told Dan that Dan's great-grandfather (on Dan's father's mother's side) was an immigrant from Northern Ireland. Before he went to Northern Ireland, though, he was from Aberdeenshire, Scotland. His last name was Simpson. When Dan did some research, he found out that in Aberdeenshire, only one clan in which the name Simpson is related to, that is the Fraser clan of Aberdeenshire.
Interestingly, Castel Fraser in Aberdeenshire is only about 10 miles from where we live, we went there last Saturday to see the 'family root'. It is a huge piece of property, hen we were talking about Dan's family heritage with the lady in the gift shop, she pulled out a book that is written by one of the 20th lady of the Fraser clan. In the book, sure enough, they found the last name Simpson. But new information was added to the already known fact - the Simpson side of the family actually stems from an illegitimate relationship. Oh, well, that's it, no hope for inheritance.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Go Freecycle!


Since we don't have anything nice for inviting friends home for a cup of tea, I decided that it would be a good idea to pay attention to Freecycle and see if anyone offers tea sets. Well, a lady did that one night, I wrote back and she immediately replied, she told me we actually have met in a Christian conference that we attended when we first arrived here! She is also a homeschool mom and we exchanged names and contact numbers. She remembers my name and since I am the first one to respond, she gave the set to me.

She told me the set was given to them for their wedding, but they never got around using it. They were still in their original wrapping material when we received it. We also joined the family for an afternoon of tea and scones, and some very nice chats.

Out of curiosity, I googled the name of the pattern (Gloria L553) and the company (Noritake), and guess what I found. The company was started by two Japanese brothers in New York over a hundred years ago, and the pattern was discontinued.

But when I look up those china replacement websites, I found out the set that we received actually costs a little fortune, well, as far as our current standard is concerned:

Sugar Bowl with Lid $34.99 (x2)
Creamer $29.99 (x2)
Plate $17.99 (x2)
Bread and Butter plate $8.99 (x12)
Cup and Saucer set $23.99 (x12)

Well, that comes to about $560 USD!!! (That's $4,340 HKD)

I told Kioni all she can do is touch them a bit, but definitely not drink with them until she can show me she doesn't drop things on the floor anymore. Well, maybe under tight supervision, I can give her a drink of Ribena from the nice cups. This is the nicest thing we have owned so far, other than our Mac computers. We better not break anything, or else, don't know if we could afford to replace them.

Thanks Fiona, for your generosity.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Roundabouts

There are a zillion roundabouts everywhere you go in Aberdeen, unless you are going down your street to two houses down, then you won't be dealing with roundabouts. While others find it fun to go around roundabouts, I find it extremely challenging, even though I am not the one driving.

Roundabouts are not for those whose ear water easily get imbalanced. Every time we go around them, I feel like someone is squeezing my stomach, pretty soon, something is up my throat ready to come out. Due to genetic makeup, Kioni has my problem with going around roundabouts. One time, she actually threw up in the car.

Yet, you cannot do without roundabouts living in Scotland, or in the UK for that matter. Cest' la vie.

Friday, December 12, 2008

5 precious souls

God gave us five precious souls tonight, not a crowd, but five.

It was pouring rain when we loaded our car with the guitar, song sheets, a big bag of books for Kioni to read, 5 heads of cabbages, carrots, oil, salt, meatballs, sauce, tea eggs, a big bag of rice, rice cooker, steamer, steamed buns, 2 heads of garlic....

When we were on the road with the blinding rain and gusting wind, I grumbled, "Nobody will come tonight in this rain and wind."

Dan was silent, then he said, "We'll see."

I went into the kitchen right away and started cooking. With the help of our five volunteers, we started to get everything ready. I was in the kitchen frying up vegetables when I heard Dan said, "Ni Hao!" I knew, our first guest or guests had arrived! "Good, at least one person came," I thought. I didn't go say hi fearing I might burn the cabbage if I leave the stove. Suddenly, a head poked inside the kitchen, a big smiley face said, "Ni Hao!" to me, that's a Chinese face I have never seen before.

"I just arrived a week ago from China."

When I finally went out to the gathering room, there they are, the five of them, 2 girls and 3 men.

The girl who just arrived from China picked up one of the steamed buns and said, "Where did you buy these?" "I made them." I said, a bit worried that they didn't taste like they should. "You made them?! I miss eating these so much, I didn't expect to have these here. Thank you." Tears filled her eyes a bit. "It feels so good to eat these."

Everything went as planned, except the eating part took a little longer. They sang for the first time "Joy to the World" and "Silent Night", and in Chinese, too.

After Dan's talk about True Freedom, there were good discussions.

Out of the five people, one is a researcher, he is a professor of Petroleum Geology in China. He is leaving in a month going back to Beijing. He gave us his Beijing mobile phone number and urged us to contact him if we were in Beijing.

Three of the other four indicated that they would like to meet individually to discuss the Christian faith. The girl who just arrived and loved the buns wanted an English partner.

We are extremely delighted with the responses and we are sure that we will host another Gathering in a month or so. I just need to have the catering part run a little smoother. Need some more planning.

We have a great night. Kioni was a bit unhappy that I was in the kitchen too long. When I put her to bed two hours past her bed time. I thank her for being part of the "team", she held my hand and said, "You are welcome, I just had to sleep later, that's all." She has been a trooper all night.

Steamed buns, etc...

We are getting ready for the first Oil Lamp Gathering. We are excited, though we don't know exactly how many will come. Patrick sent us the newly designed Oil Lamp logo last night and we will use it for the first time for in our power point. (The website has not been updated at this point.) Dan and I have been thinking about the menu, (yes, we are making our own food), we bought 5 heads of cabbages, 4 large packages of meatballs, cooked up a large pot of sauce, and I made steamed buns! How about that! The steamer comes from a Freecycler, I am so thankful to be given such nice steamer and put it to good use. By the way, in the video below, you will see a Christmas tree, decorations and a sofa (with two matching chairs, that you won't see) all come from Freecycle. If you look closely, there is a tube of ornaments leaning against the fireplace, we will give those out tonight as gifts to the Chinese students who come to the Gathering.

We also practice songs this morning. See below Kioni and daddy practicing a song we are going to sing tonight, we are also going to sing Joy to the World and Silent Night. We hope to bring the true meaning of Christmas to the Chinese students. Christmas is not just an old 'western' holiday when people just set up Christmas trees, give gifts and feast. Christmas is about Jesus' arrival on earth, so that we will be free.

Monday, December 08, 2008

20 years

Today is my 20th anniversary of becoming a Christian. How God has sought me over the years is an amazing journey, and I have recorded it in My Journey of Faith in both English and Chinese.

20 years is a long time in human years, but when I consider what I will spend in eternity, it is nothing.
20 years has confirmed one thing, if not more, that is God IS faithful. I have gone through deep dark valleys and experienced jubilant moments, God is always there, to have and to hold, never letting me go, even there are more moments than I want to remember when I complained excessively. I have never experienced that kind of patience, that kind of love.

If God would take me to heaven today, I will only ask for one thing, if I am allowed, before I leave: that is the salvation of my parents. I will leave with no regrets, but as I look at it with my human eyes and heart, it saddens me everytime I thought of my parents being resistant to God's love.

Well, like winning the Oscar, I have to say some thank-yous:

I am not going to name names, because you know who you are. You are my faithful friends, you know who you are. You are always there when I write you an email needing to 'talk', you always care and pray for me, and my family. At times when I was not paying attention, you are remembering me. Thank you.

What a beautiful cloud of people surrounding me when I continue on this pilgrimage. 20 years of faithfulness proven by God and by the angels He has put around me at various periods of time for various reasons.

Thank you, God, for choosing me to be your dear child. If I have another 20 years, I will rejoice.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Inspiration from X-Files and such

Maybe you didn't know I love to analyze movies and TV shows, in fact, I once almost entered into studying movies when I first graduated from university, not how to make movies, rather movie criticism. Didn't study that, because there was no such course in Hong Kong back then, and I didn't want to leave Hong Kong again after being absent for 5 years for university in Taiwan.

I love to watch several TV shows and am glad that no matter where I go, I am still able to get those shows.

I like X-Files, other than I like watching the rather handsome and smart Fox Mulder (David Duchovny) and his always skeptical partner Dana Scully (Gillian Anderson), I am intrigued by the fact that though Fox Mulder firmly believes that there is life other than those that exist on earth, he does not believe in God. On the other hand, Dana Scully, a medical doctor, who was sent to partner with Fox Mulder for the sole purpose of debunking his work, is highly skeptical of alien lifeform, but she wears a crucifix around her neck, and states that she believes in God and miracles. Isn't that funny what people 'choose' to believe? You might say, "When you see evidence, you believe." This is not quite the case. Dana Scully, through her line of work with Mulder, has seen a fair share of X-phenominum, however, she still told Mulder, "You have to show me evidence." She is always trying to explain things away with science. Hold on...she is the one who believes in miracles! And most people thinks miracles happen when science ends. On the other hand, Mulder, who is convinced that his sister was abducted by aliens, would always scorn Scully for her belief and having faith, yet, he is totally convinced of something he cannot prove yet. I think other than the X elements in X-files, the well-developed characters of Mulder and Scully contribute to the success of the series.

I also love forensic science, crime stories, criminal profiling, and shows along those lines. I am not particularly interested in the guts and blood, but I am fascinated by how criminals think, why they think they could commit crimes and not get caught. On the other hand, the dogged determination of the people who try everything they can to catch the criminal is worth every ounce of my respect, the process of solving crime fascinates me. What I learned from these shows is that the more arrogant you are, the easier you will get caught. A well planned out crime takes much longer to solve, versus if you think you are good, you will start to be careless, and eventually, you will get caught.

The shows about cold cases have taught me one thing further, judgment will always come, it might take detectives 20, 30 years to catch up with you, but you will get caught, there is always one thread of line that links back to you, awaiting for a detective to discover it, or an eyewitness to finally come forward. Of course, there are more unsolved cold cases than those that are solved, but each cold case that is solved gives hope, and hope is what you need when your loved one disappeared or murdered decades ago. With no hope or any reason to hope, the heart dies.

And of course, as a Christian, I do believe that there will be a final judgment, where all the cold cases will be solved, and God the great judge will sentence the criminals, who were allowed to be free on earth (physically but not in their conscience), to the eternal prison. And of course, we will also know if Mulder is right about aliens!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Two died today - 45 years ago

Two unique men died today 45 years ago, each unique in their own way.

C.S. Lewis and John F. Kennedy both died on November 22, 1963, both of Irish descent, both had tremendous influences to changing minds of this world.

JFK was assassinated, the world's attention was completely focused on JFK's assassination, C.S. Lewis' died suddenly and quietly.

What would they say to each other in eternity?

Finally

I finally start to type, what will happen next is an unknown. These thoughts have been on my mind for years, but unsure how I can put them into words, I let the them brew. Now, these thoughts cannot be contained anymore. In the recent months, for reasons only known only to God, friends and family started to tell me how good I wrote. As a literature major, I almost went into creative writing for my master's degree. Eventually, financial reasons forbidden me to do so. When I found blogging, there's where my urge to write can be satisfied, and in turn, people commented positively. This is my first attempt to my thoughts in a 'book', though I have been keeping track of many things for years in my head.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Scottish birthday

We would love to make a cake for Dan's birthday, however, without an electric beater, it is really hard. So we made Scottish scones instead. Kioni suggested we put a chunk of Toblerone on top of it to make it sweet, that what we did. We didn't have small candles either, so a big white candle stood beside of the 'cake' instead of in the cake. A mini heart shaped scone complete the birthday celebration. Then came the birthday song and warm hugs. I think Dan has a good birthday.

Mathematical broccoli

Kioni found this in the supermarket, she immediately calls it the pyramid broccoli. I at first didn't even think it was a vegetable, but then a saw that it was put together with a little head of cauliflower! It is a vegetable! How can that be, it just looks so...so...so...mathematical! And out of this world! Must have watched too much X-Files. Don't know if I would buy it a second time, it just look so different, maybe I will change my mind after I taste it. By the way, it has a name: Romanesco broccoli. It is was first documented in Italy (as broccolo romanesco) in the sixteenth century. It is sometimes called broccoflower and coral broccoli.

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Brilliant mind


I am surprised how easily C.S. Lewis communicates with little minds, how brilliant it is to be able to pass over thoughts and emotions through simple words 45 years after he died! What kind of gift is that, to be able to write so many genre of literature and be so good at it! God truly bless some people with a brilliant mind, Lewis sure was one of them.

Kioni just finished reading The Magician's Nephew in the Chronicles of Narnia. She loves every single bit of it and asked to read the rest of the Chronicles. What a big mistake I made to leave my set of Chronicles of Narnia back in the U.S.! Well, I didn't think my 4 year old would be enjoying it that much, to tell the truth. So the best we can do for now is to show her the movie The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe. Some scenes in the movie are a bit too scary for her, like the scene where Aslan was killed. Kioni doesn't like see the "ugly dudes."

Kioni not only loves the story, she even starts imagining her stuff toy animals coming alive and living in Narnia. She makes her pet sheep toy BaaBaa come alive, and the sheep bite the head of the White Witch off! I at first thought it is not possible that a sheep can bite a person's head off, and it is also too violent. When I was set to correct her, I was reminded that in fantasy land, everything is possible. And wars are always violent, so I let it go.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

French Press

Due to lack of counter space, and mostly due to trying to save money on electricity and buying filtering paper for a coffee machine, I opted for using a French Press for my daily morning brew. It has been a wonderful surprise how great the coffee has turned out. I collected two French Press from my mom, well, she doesn't drink coffee, but she's got lots of gifts from friends, and two of them are French Presses. So I took them, knowing that they will be in use when I come to Aberdeen.

I just checked the internet, a regular French Press is not cheap! Am I glad that I have two. My old one broke while we were still in the U.S. I just prayed that these two will last me these years in Aberdeen.

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

我的父親

過去兩年多來多次整拾往時存下的物件,在一叠紙中發現了我在二十多年前,大學時代所寫的一篇文章。

寫於1986年6月19日 台灣大學

第一次看到爸爸滴眼淚,是在祖母的靈堂上。他並沒有哭,只是靜靜的 流淚。我們從小就聽他說祖母的偉大:祖母一個人領著七個小孩子從大陸逃難到香港,最大的才十七、八歲,爸爸是老四。從他平時的說話中,聽得出他懷念的故鄉 ﹣﹣ 那大房子和兒時嬉戲的庭園。祖母和兒女們在新界粉嶺賣飲料,叫「咖啡大王」,當時生活非常艱苦,是我們這幸福的一代體會不到的。可是有一點我是刻骨銘心的 看到了,就是爸爸的眼淚似乎在說:「樹欲靜而風不息,子欲養而親不在。」

爸爸很孝順老人家,我們小時候每週一次去探望住在伯父家的祖母,是必然的「節目」,我和弟妹有時候不想去,就會當場給他教訓一頓。爸爸會說沒有祖母就沒有 爸爸,沒有爸爸就沒有我們,所以我們一定要孝順祖母。另外,由於父母都要上班,我們姐弟三人都是由妹姨婆帶大的,從小到大,爸爸常常叮嚀我們一定要孝順姨 婆,沒有姨婆,我們不可能長得那麽壯健、活潑。孝慈觀念,就是從小時候潛移默化得來的。

爸爸因為限於環境,不可能受高深教育,他只唸到高中,可是他的領導才能令人驚訝。從賣票開始做起,在九龍巴士公司中,他今天已在外勤組管理數千部下。媽常說爸爸若多唸點書,成就必定驚人。他的深思熟慮和處理意外事件時的當機立斷,都不是平常我們心目中的爸爸所擁有的。他從來不會他看見的車禍的驚心動魄的場面向我們敍述,怕嚇倒我們,郤苦口婆心地提醒我們過馬路要千萬小心,不可亂衝亂撞。

爸爸帶給了我們最難忘的童年,海灘嬉水、砌沙堆;在名勝古蹟之間到處拍照;到大餐廳吃西餐。還記得他教我們怎樣拿刀叉、怎樣切牛排。記得有一次游泳後倦極 而歸,那時我們七、八歲吧!洗頭髮洗澡後就想睡,但頭髮仍未乾,爸爸就拿著毛巾幫我揉乾頭髮,另一隻手郤擋在我眼前,深怕燈光刺到我的眼睛。現在長大了, 才體會到那種是何等的慈愛,怪不得媽媽稱爸爸為「二十四孝爸爸」。我們對他的要求,除非是很不可能,否則他大多數都會滿足我們的心願。有時候甚至不用要 求,他會給我們一個意外的驚喜。

那時我才十二歲吧!爸爸知道我很喜歡小狗,有一天他如常的在晚上回家吃飯,那時我仍然在房間裏對著數學習題發呆。我只聽見咔的一聲,房門開了,爸爸一個箭 步衝進來,手中拿著一團毛茸茸的小毛球,往鋪滿了習題的桌子上一放,嘩!是一雙白毛小狗!當時我驚喜得話也說不出來了。爸爸就是這樣,幽默、風趣,且隨時 會弄得你手足無措。

有年好幾年農曆新年他剛好是當夜班,我們全家好夢方酣之際郤被吵醒了,聽得出來是由一個極不願意把別人吵醒的人所弄出來的聲音。爬下床來一看,原來是爸爸 抬著一支大桃花,他正把它那枝桃花抬到客廳中。他不管家中有沒有地方放這麽大一枝桃花,反正他看到又便宜又大又漂亮就買回來了。他不喜歡小的東西,因為他 的哲學是 ﹣﹣ 大就是美。因此家中無論買甚麽、養甚麽,都是以大為主。桌子、椅子、冰箱、電視機等都要大,養狗喜歡養德國狼犬。說到動物,一定要提這件事:弟弟在家中飼 養了用來做實驗竹的白老鼠。有一天,爸爸為了讓十多隻小白老鼠「舒展筋骨」,把牠們從籠子裏放到浴缸中跑步,白老鼠見有機可乘,就到處亂跑,搞得滿城風雨。

最為全家人傳頌至今的,是有一次他要買一套齊肩高的音響擴音器,但奈何房子太小,客廳放不下。但他說那對擴音器音質絕佳,不買實在太可惜了,所以他思前想後,終於給他想出了一個妙法,就是把因廚房太小而被推到客廳的冰箱搬回廚房,但是因為實在沒有位置了,所以爸爸說要把冰箱放在洗碗碟機上面!全家人一聽當場哄笑起來,洗碗碟機已有腰高,把冰箱放在上面,冰箱中的食物豈不是都要爬梯子才能拿得到了嗎?我們在笑聲中提出反對,爸爸郤說若這樣不行的話,就把洗碗碟機放在冰箱上又如何?這一說更非同小可,媽更笑得站不直腳。洗碗碟機放在高處,更本就不可能使用了。其實他也知道他的辦法是行不通的,只是他實在太想買那套擴音器了。他的幽默實在為全家帶來了不少歡樂氣氛。

除了買東西要以大為原則之外,他也吃得很多。所以從以前的「排骨祺」(排骨在廣州話為瘦的意思),變成了現在的「肥佬」。爸爸很喜歡吃飯,其他東西對他來 說都是「不頂肚」的(不夠飽)。就算媽精心泡製了數十隻上海餛飩給他吃,過了一會他仍是嚷著要吃飯才甘心。他自已吃得多,也要求我們吃得多。不止我們,就連他養的熱帶魚也如是。家中有一個五呎長橫放的水簇箱,其中魚口眾多,當然吃得也多,加上爸爸是雙倍餵飼的,所以魚兒都長得特快,顏色特別鮮艷,而且每尾都有營養過盛的傾向。爸爸最喜歡的一尾魚名叫「炮彈」,因為特別吃得多、長得胖、游得快,動作表情都比其他的魚都多,所以爸爸最疼牠。對魚兒尚且雙倍餵飼 了,你能想像他怎麼對待他寵愛有加妻子和兒女嗎?要是他煮麵給你吃,你跟他說你吃一個麵餅,他必定給你吃一個半麵餅。經驗告訴我們,以後我們想吃一個麵餅,就跟他說只吃半個,那麼他就會給你一個。可是後來這個「絕橋」給他看穿了,他仍是依然故我地煮一個半。皆因多年來不敢違背父命,因此全家都長得十分健碩。

對於我來台灣唸書一事,爸爸雖然非常贊成,郤是很依依不捨的。他很想我們多受教育,將來貢獻社會,他並且對子女們戴「四方帽」非常嚮往。近日看見學長學姐們和家人到處拍照,我已想像得到明年輪到我的時候,爸爸會笑得把眼睛瞇成一線,驕傲地撘著我的肩膀在校園拍照。今年妹妹在香港大學畢業,我想他更應老懷安慰了吧!媽曾對我說,在我離港到僑大的時候,爸爸老是長嗟短嘆。一來我是三姐弟中最有依賴性的一個,郤忽然離家而去,當然會傷心。二來兒女出國唸書對爸爸來說才是頭一遭,當然是不習慣女兒不在家。剛好那時正值英國進軍福克蘭羣島之際,爸爸就自我安慰地說:「英女皇尚且派她的兒子去戰場出生入死,我女兒只是去求學,又為何捨不得她呢!」那時才真正的體會到父親對我有多麽的疼愛。妹妹考香港大學的時候,面試後在等結果,爸爸的焦心和擔掛簡直就像自已申請入學 一樣。結果妹妹批淮入學了,從爸爸如何雀躍是不難想像的。

常常強調他是一家之主的他,其實是非常民主的。我們喜歡做的事,只要不 是非法勾當,他從來不會反對的。妹妹信基督教的初期他不大高興,因為怕她誤信邪教,後來也就小事化無了,連弟弟也信了呢!爸爸有一種說話方式很可愛,沒有和他共住的人常會誤會,我們稱之為「假民主」。當他說:「湯好像不夠味道,你們認為要加點鹽嗎?」的時候,不熟悉他的人可能會回答說夠味道了,不用加鹽 了。這就大大的誤解了他的意思,因為其實他是在說:「湯不夠味道,要加點鹽。」另外,去飲茶的時候他一直喊著叫弟弟叫一碗飯吃,又說弟弟肚子一定很餓,其實就是他自已肚子餓得發慌了。他這種說話方式為家中帶來了不少歡笑聲,因為我們很多時候會模仿他的說話方式,十分好玩。他又很喜歡一面吃飯,一面叫人挾菜挾肉:「嘉洛(我妹妹)吃魷魚啦!很新鮮的呀!」「迅立(我弟弟)吃這塊牛腩,很嫩的呢!」在飯桌上坐他兩旁的因此經常滿碗都是菜。自從我來了台 灣唸書之後,妹妹又在大學宿舍寄宿,家中就只剩下媽媽和弟弟,但是他吃飯的時候仍然會把我和妹妹的名字叫在口邊:「嘉洛不回來吃飯真笨,看這條魚多新 鮮!」

雖然爸爸吃很多,但是他也很注意運動,他常常會去跑步,時不時摸著肚子自鳴得意的說自已的大肚子不見了。有一次去館子吃飯時他要喝啤酒,媽媽勸他說喝啤酒會得大肚子,叫他不要喝了,可是他得意的說他已成功地減肥了,並摸著肚皮說:「你看我的大肚子沒有了!」說時遲那時快,館子的伙計拿著菜牌走過來問他: 「肥佬,看看吃甚麼菜!」

爸爸就是那麼慈愛、風趣、活潑和感情豐富的人,每次和家人說起他的趣事,總會笑得合不攏咀。他是我們家中的靈魂人物,他上班的時候,家中總是靜悄悄的, 只要他一回家,就一定有很多趣事發生。雖然我們再也不像以前那樣需要他帶我們到海灘游泳,到「爵士餐廳」吃西餐,到海運大廈的大空地上跑跑跳跳,這些地方,我們現在自已都會去了,但是我們仍要需要他的愛。事實上,他給我們的愛從來沒有停止過。只是人長大了,才能更深的體會到爸爸對我們的愛。

雖然爸爸從來沒有對我們說過「我愛你」這三個字,但他一直以來都以各種行動來表明他對我們的愛有多深。我們從未曾停止過感受他那真切的關懷和庇護。他對家庭的認真、負責、積極的態度,使全家都活在幸福裏。

基於中國人的含蓄,我從來沒有在他面前說過:「我愛你!」爸爸,請容我在這裏說一聲:「爸爸,我愛你!」

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Did we beat you in the U.S.?


Did we beat anyone in the U.S. of having snow this early? Yes, we have snow on the ground this morning when we woke up, first time in the past two years to see snow, reminds me of Chicagoland in early spring.
It has been cold in the past few days, but what a surprise to see snow this morning when we woke up. I thought I heard someone outside this morning brushing off snow from their car windshield.
Also see Kioni's blog for her reactions towards the snow this morning.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

No Presents!

Ellie (6) is Kioni's little friend from across the street. A few days ago, the subject of Santa Claus came up when Kioni was playing in their house. Kioni, as any truthful Christian kid would, told Ellie that Santa Claus is not real, he didn't bring presents, it's actually her mom and dad who give her the presents.

Today Ellie is over playing in our house, she walk over to where I am sitting, look at me with the most serious face I have ever seen on her, and with a solemn voice, she said, "You know, Santa is not going to give you presents if you don't believe in him, NO PRESENTS!" "He CAN fit through the chimney, and you never see him because he is invisible."

I feel bad about what I am compelled to tell her, so I told her I will look Santa Claus up on the internet and read her some of the things they said about Santa Claus. I read her a few lines, and she said, "So you mean my mum and dad wants me to be surprised, so they said the presents are from Santa?"

For all those who don't agree with telling kids that Santa does not give us presents on Christmas Eve, maybe when you believe that Santa is real, than you can start telling kids that Santa is real, or else, plainly put it, you are just lying. I am rarely that blunt, but making kids believe, year after year, about something that you don't even believe yourself, upsets me. You know what's next? When you try to tell your kid a truth next time, guess what? Cry Wolf, the more white lies you tell, the less truth your kid would believe.

Don't worry, you're not going to hell.

Associated Press
Wednesday, October 22, 2008

LONDON — London buses have God on their side — but not for long, if atheists have their way.

The sides of some of London's red buses will soon carry ads asserting there is "probably no God," as nonbelievers fight what they say is the preferential treatment given to religion in British society.

Organizers of a campaign to raise funds for the ads said Wednesday they received more than $113,000 in donations, almost seven times their target, in the hours since they launched the project on a charity Web site. Supporters include Oxford University biologist Richard Dawkins, who donated $9,000.

The money will be used to place posters on 30 buses carrying the slogan "There's probably no God. Now stop worrying and enjoy your life." The plan was to run the ads for four weeks starting in January, but so much money has been raised that the project may be expanded.

"A lot of people say trying to organize atheists is like herding cats. The last couple of days shows that is not true," said comedy writer Ariane Sherine, who started the campaign.

While most London buses carry posters for shops or Hollywood movies, Christian churches and Muslim groups have bought bus-side ad space in the past.

Sherine came up with the idea after seeing a series of Christian posters on London buses. She said she visited the Web site promoted on one ad and found it told nonbelievers they would spend eternity in torment in hell.

"I thought it would be a really positive thing to counter that by putting forward a much happier and more upbeat advert, saying 'Don't worry, you're not going to hell,'" said Sherine, 28. "Atheists believe this is the only life we have, and we should enjoy it."

The British Humanist Association, which is administering the fundraising drive, said it had been so successful the campaign might spread to other cities including Manchester and Edinburgh.

Most Britons identify themselves as Christians, but few attend church regularly, and public figures rarely talk about their beliefs. Former Prime Minister Tony Blair was rare among politicians in speaking openly about his Christian faith.

Dawkins, author of the best-selling atheist manifesto "The God Delusion," said that religion nonetheless held a privileged position in society.

"Religious organizations have an automatic tax-free charitable status," he said. "Bishops sit in the House of Lords automatically. Religious leaders get preferential treatment on all sorts of commissions.

"This campaign to put alternative slogans on London buses will make people think — and thinking is anathema to religion."

Dawkins said that as an atheist he "wasn't wild" about the ad's assertion that there was "probably" no God.

Sherine said the word was included to ensure the posters didn't breach transit advertising regulations, which stipulate ads should not offend religious people.

Few believers appeared offended by the campaign, although most doubted it would work.

"I think people will ask themselves, 'On what basis can they make that statement?" said Inayat Bunglawala of the Muslim Council of Britain. "So it will get people thinking, so in that sense it can only be good."

Ad agency CBS Outdoor, which manages advertising on many London buses, said it had approved the atheist campaign.

Sales and marketing director Tim Bleakley said "our decision to take an ad that promotes God, or one that promotes no God, is based on commercial terms, as long as the advertising copy itself does not breach U.K. advertising standards."

The Rev. Jenny Ellis, spirituality and discipleship officer for the Methodist Church, welcomed the ads.

"This campaign will be a good thing if it gets people to engage with the deepest questions of life," she said.

The religious think tank Theos said it had donated $82 to the campaign, on the grounds that the ads were so bad they would probably attract people to religion.

"It tells people to 'stop worrying,' which is hardly going to be a great comfort for those who are concerned about losing jobs or homes in the recession," said Theos director Paul Woolley.

"Stunts like this demonstrate how militant atheists are often great adverts for Christianity."

Sunday, October 05, 2008

Photo story

Kioni and Dan working in the backyard of our rented house, try to lay some grass.

The thing in the middle is for drying clothes. There is a dryer in the house, but electricity is expensive, therefore, a lot of people dry clothes outside. One downside though, there are always little bugs stick to the clothes, therefore, always shake them before gathering them inside.

Looking out from our second floor window to the back. You can see our neighbour's yards. In the far background is rolling hills. The sun was just rising.

Looking from our house across the street, our house is very similar to these houses. There are two big bags of rocks in our front yards. Our landlords wanted to lay those in the backyard, but Dan wanted grass. He will still use these up in some ways in the backyard. By the way, each family owns half of the building, not the whole thing.

An old building around Kings College, University of Aberdeen

Kings College, University of Aberdeen

The North Sea in the background

A pasture next to the North Sea

A lighthouse at Peterhead, Aberdeenshire, Scotland
Life is like a roll of toilet paper.
The closer you get to the end the faster it goes.

Saturday, October 04, 2008

Mansize Kleenex

It is always fun to strode along the isles of supermarkets in a foreign country, because you can always find something you have never seen in your life.

I didn't expect to see too many interesting thing in Scottish supermarket, but when we went to the paper isle to pick up some toilet paper, I saw this at the shelf:

Kleenex Ultra Soft mansize 1PK
for 1.95 pound (which is about 3.44 US)
Mansize Kleenex? You think in Scotland men have bigger faces that requires larger contact surface? How interesting.

Thursday, October 02, 2008

A whole bunch of things you have to read

You might think something has gone very wrong with me, I have simply disappeared into thin air. Someone who will write and write suddenly stopped.

Well, it is all a combination of various factors that have me stopped for such a long time. We have lived in 4 countries in the past 5 months, that is sort of disruptive, don't you think?

Anyway, I am back. This time, I am in Aberdeen, Scotland, borrowing our neighbour's wireless internet signal (with his consent) writing this entry.

We have visited families, friends and churches, many of them, in the past 6 months, it feels great to see them again, however, it is a bit sad that we know we won't be back to see them in a few years, at least.

We have arrived in Aberdeen for two weeks now, though we have quite a bit of challenges, like because of hurricane Ike in Texas, we missed ALL our flights coming to Aberdeen, slept on the floor of New York JFK airport (well, basically, only Kioni slept), ran through London Heathrow airport with 6 bags of luggages, three hand-carry bags, a car seat, three blankets, a stroller with a 4-year old in it so that we could catch the last plane to Aberdeen, then cramped all our bags and ourselves in the tiny B&B room before throwing ourselves in the beds. Oh, we took showers in the little cubicle that fits Kioni perfectly.
Kioni sleeping on the floor in the arrival level of New York JFK, we got kicked out of the departure level by an extremely stern security guard.

Kioni relaxing in our tiny B&B room

We viewed a number of houses in the first few days, trying to decide which house to rent. At the end, we rented none of those houses. A couple who wanted to sell this house, decided that they wanted to rent it to a divinity student, and at the right moment, we walked through the door.

After we looked at the house, we asked them about the rent, she said, the leasing agency said it should be around 750 pounds to 800 pounds (x2 for U.S. dollars). But then she said, 'I though it should be more like 700.' Dan and I looked at each other and raised our eyebrows, never have I heard anything like that, lowering the rent without asking?

Anyway, we moved into this house, which is a bit tight in the U.S. monster house standard, but in fact is enough for the three of us.

We don't have a land line yet, it will have to be a week or so from now before we will have it, which means the internet is not available either.

We found out very quickly you pay twice the amount for similar items in the U.S., we were trying to save on lunch one day and went to McDonald's, BIG MISTAKE! Didn't go back a second time.

But what I really want to say, is how our faithful and loving God takes care of us all along, here are some examples, well, a lot of them, and a lot of them didn't get recorded yet, I am too sleepy right now to write them all:

1) When we knew we couldn't fly out of Detroit on our departure day September 14, a 24 year old Northwest staff spent an hour with us trying to call various airlines and ticket issuing companies to try to work out our tickets. Remember, all flights were affected, she had a long line of customers waiting for her help, but for some odd reasons, she decided that she would go above and beyond to help us. I have never experienced this before, usually, they will just tell you, "Your plane is delayed due to weather condition, come back tomorrow, sorry about that, and by the way, we don't provide a hotel room."

2) When we arrived in London Heathrow, the customs officer is obviously of Hong Kong origin, he is very concerned if we can make our flight to Aberdeen, and he said, 'You will have to run for it.' And we did.

3) When we arrived at the London to Aberdeen terminal, both Dan and I were huffing and puffing, , I sensed that people here move much slower, maybe the Scottish culture is more relaxed, and I thought to myself, not a good sign, maybe they just work too slow and we will miss the last flight to Aberdeen and we will, again, have to spend the night at an airport. When we got up to the counter, again, a Chinese looking staff helped us to reissue our tickets, and he charged us only the reissue fee, though we actually had to buy all three tickets all over.

4) We rented this house, but couldn't get in until the owner moved out, we were able to book another hotel for two nights, but after that, all the hotels and B&B were all full because of students coming to start school. James and Allison Merrick, fellow American student and his wife, opened up their house and allow us to stay with them for two nights, and cooked up some good food, plus quite a number of tips for living in Aberdeen, including where the Chinese grocery store is located and where the Charity (thrift) stores are.
Talking about Chinese grocery store, 'it just happens' that Allison has a Chinese co-worker, who tries to teach her how to make Chinese food all day long, and of course, Allison knows where the Chinese grocery store is, she even call her co-worker up to confirm the location, 'it just happens'. So I was able to get the most important condiment - soy sauce, several big bottles of them when we moved into the house.

5) After serious calculation, we decided that buying a car will benefit us more than not, especially on the ministry side. We need a car to drive students around, bring them to grocery stores and such. We were told by James Merrick of this Christian car dealer guy. We went to see him today. We had to take two different buses in order to get there, and all we had for the address was "the motor company in Newmachar'. We needed to use the internet this morning, so we could sort out our finance before we get to the car dealership. But we don't have internet access at home. Dan caught our next door neighbour getting ready to leave the house for the day, he agreed to let us use his wireless signal! He gave us his password and we are online! We were able to sort thing out before leaving the house!

6) We had to take two buses to get to the car dealership. We went on the first bus, get to the exchange stop, got off, then successfully got on the next bus. But we were a bit not sure after we got off, how we can get there. Dan said he would call the guy when we get off the bus. While we were sitting on the bus, an old gentleman must have saw our 'we are clueless' expression. He asked us where we were going and told us he was getting off at the same stop. So we followed him off the bus. Where we got off was like a little quaint town, there was no business in sight! He walked half way with us, and then pointed up a road and told us the car dealership was just up there, which we couldn't see from where we stood at all. We walked for another 3 minutes, and we found it, without making a phone call!

7) The fact is, we would not be able to make a phone call, because at the moment we arrived at the car dealership, Dan realized that he has forgotton to take his planner off the bus! And all the car dealership's phone number and a whole lot of stuff is inside. He was so focused on finding the car dealership that he forgot his planner. The lady in the car dealership's office, (turns out to be the owner's wife), was very kind, she immediately made phone calls to the Lost Property departement of the bus company and left Dan's name and contact number with them. I thought to myself, she could have cared less, the most anyone would do was to give you the phone to make the phone calls yourself, but she made all the phone calls for us.

8) We test drove the car, an 8-year old Ford Focus, silver in colour, very pretty and solid looking. The price is 2950 pounds. When we came back to the lot, a tall smiling guy welcomed us, Brian, the owner shook our hands. He didn't talk about the car for the first twenty minutes of the conversation, rather, he told us how God found him before he found God. How God has blessed him all along, even he became a Christian 5 years ago, how God, within a few weeks, saved his whole family, his wife and his two grown sons. Then we started to talk about which church he goes to, it just happens to be the church that has been mentioned to us at least 10 times, even from when we back in the U.S.. "By the way, the pastor is coming for lunch with us, he will be here in 20 minutes."

Then we get into the office to talk about the buying of the car, he pulled the paperwork for the car out and said, "I will sell it to you for 2500 pounds, you will need to pay about a hundred or so more pounds for the various paperwork with the government, I hope lowering the price will help you will that. I am here to help anyway I can. I see myself as God's transport manager."

"What?" "This is the second time this happens to us, lowering prices before we ask for it. Do they do that a lot in Scotland?"

I don't think so, and I know who did it for us.

9) The pastor walked through the door of the office, "Daniel Bush", he said, "Mike told me about you." Mike is the ReachGlobal (our mission agency) Europe director, 'it happens' that Mike and the pastor are classmates in the same PhD program!

10) Since we cannot drive the car back home with us today without the proper paperwork, we had to go home by bus again, which will take us another hour. But Brian said, "My driver will drive you home, it takes about 12 minutes." "By the way, do you need someone to pick you up for church on Sunday? We will come pick you up and take you to church. How about we should up around 9:00 at your house?" God knows how depressed we were last Sunday when we couldn't go to church because we didn't know which church to go to, and when we decided on a church, we couldn't get there because we don't know the bus routes, and we couldn't find out because we don't have internet access.

Brian also asked, "What do you need? Do you have furniture? We have a pine table and chair set sitting in our shed, do you need it?" I almost pinch myself for that, we just spent 99 pounds buying a set from the store! His wife offered pots and pans, and other household items. Either they are not kidding about the Scottish hospitality, or God is fast at work here.

11) The pastor said, "We have lots of Chinese students in our church." Dan and I looked at each other, and in my heart, I am already at the church, I want so much to meet these Chinese students. How I pray that this church will partner with us doing this tremendous ministry. Oh, by the way, the pastor's degree is in Missions.

12) Some of you might know, Kioni loves horses. Can you believe this: A hotel down the road from our house owns a horse. There is a path leading to where this horse lives just behind our house. It is a grand total of a 2 minute walk if Kioni wants to visit the horse walking down that quiet path, which also leads to a huge playground, complete with swings, slides, see-saws, and a zip line. The horse, Milly, is very tamed and loves to eat from people's hands. She always comes over when she sees us walking down the path, hoping for some carrots or whole wheat bread.

I don't know what you call all these, 'it just happens..."? I would rather say we are well taken care of by the Almight One, our most loving God.

Friday, August 01, 2008

Where in the world?

In the past few months, we were in Asia, now we are in the U.S., and a month from now, we will be in Europe!

With all these changes to adjust, it is hard to leave mental energy to write on my blog. Although I have not written for a few months, I do THINK about writing often, but all the traveling we do left me with little energy to even sit down and think.

After a whirlwind visit to Hong Kong, we are back in the U.S. staying with Dan's mom. This is still not our destination yet, we are heading to Aberdeen, Scotland in just over a month's time for Dan's PhD studies at the University of Aberdeen.

After we left the Philippines, so many things have happened. One of the most important changes is that we are switching from ReachGlobal Asian team to ReachGlobal European team. We were going to separate from ReachGlobal and set up a new ministry to serve the Mainland Chinese students and scholars in U of Aberdeen, however, when Dan talked about our vision with the Asia Director of ReachGlobal in Hong Kong, he saw the strategical value of the ministry and asked us to stay with ReachGlobal.

This is a wonderful confirmation of our hope to serve and minister in this capacity.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

What is China going to show the world?

China is about to prove to the world how strong and advanced they are in just a few months through hosting the Olympics. However, the Sichuan earthquake has thrown the whole country into tremendous overdrive in dealing with this super disaster. It also shows the world that though China might be advanced enough to host an international event, when it comes to rural China, things are still pretty basic.

Photos I see from Hong Kong showed the 4-5 story high schools that collapsed in the earthquake were constructed with steel bars as thin as my thumb. The official who cried out for serious investigation of why such constructions were allowed, many suspect, was the one who received bribes and allowed those schools to be built in such a manner. Numerous school children were crushed by the fallen concrete, numerous are their parents' only child.

Sichuan is not the only place that such gross corruption takes place, there are many buildings built like "tofu", one shake and they will crumble. In fact, I suspect that they buildings that Dan is teaching and staying in right now (in southern China) could be one of those. While new and impressive constructions are sprouting up in new China, most people live in poorly built ones.

Some said there were all sorts of signs showing that the earthquake was imminent, could something be done? Could some villagers be warned, could the people practiced some earthquake drills?

With just 78 days to go before the Olympics, how is the world going to view China through the lens of this earthquake? What is China going to show the world?

On May 6, 2008, www.163.com reported that on April 26, 2008, around 7:00 in the morning, a pond in Hubei (a province to the east of Sichuan) with 80,000 cubic meters of water, suddenly showed swirls, villagers could hear loud rumbling sound. In less than 5 short hours, all of the 80,000 cubic meter water was gone, showing the black mud at the bottom of the pond, strangely, only a couple of big fish were found. Could this happen because there were movements in the ground, causing cracks at the bottom of the pond?

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Good to be home

Our stay in Hong Kong will last for two months, I am quite overjoyed because last time I stayed here this long was before I was married, that was 13 years ago! Hong Kong has changed a lot, however, it is still crazy busy with lots of people, various modes of public transportation, and many many tall buildings. The other day Dan and I went out for dinner with Kioni. After a tasty and inexpensive (6 US for two people) at a local fast food restaurant, we both sit back and ponder at how convenient for us to get to a restaurant (about a 10 minute walk from where my parents live), and how wonderful the food tasted. Nothing quite compare to the choice of food and the amount of money that you have to spend on it. At least, throughout my travel, I have yet to find a place quite like Hong Kong as far as food is concerned.

We are also impressed by the Octopus Card, this is the most innovative way for payments. Not only can you take the subway, buses, mini busses and such with the Octopus Card, you can pay with your Octopus Card at the supermarket, fast food restaurants, pharmacies, etc. Kioni has her own card and it makes her feels like a super big girl.

All in all, it has been wonderful being back. I hope Kioni will be able to remember her time here. She is having a bit of a cultural shock with the language, hopefully she will find it easier each day.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Last night in Cebu

Going back to read the first blog entry that I wrote 19 months ago when we first arrived in Cebu, it seems like not much that I felt then has changed. It is just as hot and humid, the poverty still is on display every corner we turn. The music is still loud, the traffic is still like a big confusing net.
However, something happened inside us. We are not the same person anymore. We have understood the Filipino culture much deeper than just the heat, the poverty and the loud music, and in turn, the Lord has taught us how, though all these, to understand ourselves.

Tomorrow we are flying to Hong Kong, we will stay there for two months. Dan will fly to China in two different periods of time to teach.

I have already started to miss Cebu, not for the heat and the poverty, but I miss the people I know here. I miss Maris, our faithful and loyal helper, who has saw us through thick and thin while we were dealing with cultural difficulties. I feel sorry for Kioni that she is feels sad for the first time because of having to have to say goodbye to people she knows. She does not remember America, all her memory is in Cebu.

I just hope that I won't cry too much at the airport. Maris and her best friend, Dolor will come and see us off. Saying goodbye is so hard, but we have to do is all the time. Wish that Jesus will come back soon, so there won't be anymore goodbyes.

Typhoon #3 signal is hoisted in Hong Kong, there are strong winds and rain in Hong Kong. I hope the plane will not delay, sleeping in Cebu airport with 5 large suitcases and 6 carry-on bags with a 4 year old in tow is not exactly an adventure.

Monday, April 14, 2008

Split household

In two days (this Wednesday), most of our belongings will be taken by the shipping company and put into storage in Cebu for 5 months, plus the one month it takes to ship the boxes to Aberdeen, Scotland, we will have to part with our belongings for 6 months.

We didn't think of it as too unusual at first because Dan and I have been moving with the Air Force many times in the 10 year time when he was in active duty. However, there is a major difference is, this is the first time we have our belongings split in three different parts of the world.

1) We have a storage unit in Michigan filled with our furniture and household goods, we couldn't bring everything when we came to Cebu.

2) In a few days, we will have another part in storage with the moving company in Cebu.

3) Then we will carry whatever we can with us so we can live for the next 6 months until we see our belongings again.

This will be an interesting year, doing without most of our stuff, that makes me wonder if we even need them in the first place. (A lot of the boxes are books, so I guess we do need them.)

Last time I lived in the same place for more than 9 years was the time after I graduated from Taiwan to the time when I married Dan and moved away. Since then, life has been one transition after another.

I miss the days when I can have all my baking supplies, knitting supplies, books and coffee maker all together, it will be a long while before I have it again. We cannot ship all our household goods in Michigan to Aberdeen, because the cost is high, and flats in Aberdeen is small but expensive. So we will again live a "temporary" life for the next three to four years. I wonder what next after Aberdeen.

This kind of life style actually has taught me the right attitude towards our life on earth, even if I stay in the same house from birth to the day I die, this is just one big transition, it is temporary. The permanent life, the one that I should look forward to, is yet to come. Though I don't see it now, like I don't see how or where we will live after Aberdeen, I know God has prepared a place for us, just like he has prepared a place for us in heaven. This is the most comforting thought amidst of boxes, bubble wraps and hours and hours of traveling ahead of us.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

What is history?

All that we call human history -- money, poverty, ambition, war, prostitution, classes, empires, slavery -- [is] the long terrible story of man trying to find something other than God which make him happy. ~ C.S. Lewis

We see all these happen everyday around the world, no matter which culture you are in, which level of society you are in. It is astounding though to see all these displayed so plainly in the Philippines, which is supposed to be a Catholic country. A lot of Filipinos are "religions", today we attended church service, we drove to the mall to make a few last minute purchases before we leave Cebu. On the way, we passed a large Catholic church. The church was so full that there were about 100 people standing outside of the church to attend the service. Filipinos are religious.

However, something is wrong with being just "religious", without Jesus Christ as the center of their worship, man still tries hard "to find something other than God which make him happy." The Bible explained it very clearly, in Romans 3:23-24, it says " for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."

Life is tasteless and hopeless with Jesus.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Give us the words

I just found out today that my aunt (my father's older sister) died. She had battled dementia for many years and didn't recognize anyone in recent years. She walked out of the house once about 7 years ago and went missing for about a week. My mom called and asked us to pray that she would be found, a few hours later, she called again and told me a nurse reported to the police that she took care of a patient whom was taken in by some strangers, because this woman was stealing bread and she didn't look right. My mom told me that my God did 'work'.

My aunt's funeral will be on the night when we arrive in Hong Kong (April 19, Saturday). My mom think that us being Christians will reject going to a Buddhist funeral, my sister told her we do not reject Buddhist, we just reject the belief. My mom was surprised that we are so 'welcoming' to other religions. I would very much like to go to show my dad that I respect my aunt, though I am sure he understood that as Christians, we will not participate in any Buddhist rituals in the funeral.

My dad took the news quite badly, after all, my aunt was the third oldest of the 7 children my grandparents had, and she was close to my dad because their age difference is small. Now that this aunt has died, my dad might think he will be next.

Since my brother and sister are both Christians, we have been trying to share the gospel with our parents for years but to no avail. We sense that my aunt's death is going to open up a window that allows us to talk deeper into the meaning of life and death.

Jesus, give us the right time, give us the right words. May all glory be yours.

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

Feeling blue

15 days from today, we will be in Hong Kong. I start to feel a bit sad. While we struggle a lot in the Filipino culture, I am starting to miss our friends whom we might not see for an extremely long time. Particularly, I miss Maris, our faithful helper. Without her, I will not be able to homeschool Kioni and handle the stress that the environment presents. If it is not Maris but another helper, she might actually add to our stress. I will miss her so much, she is the only woman whom I can talk to everyday.

I am feeling blue that this phase of our life will be over soon, we have a difficult time here, however, we have learned so much about ourselves, about interacting with people from other culture and about how diverse cultures can be. We will forever bring with us this experience, and will always look back and draw on the discoveries in Cebu.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Will I miss the heat?

Only 23 days to go before we will leave Cebu and go into the next phase of ministry, that is teaching in China. I have been looking forward to the cooler weather in Hong Kong since it has been roasting hot here in Cebu. We don't deal with heat very well, the humidity and heat combination often send me into a very bad mood.

It is snowing today in Aberdeen, Scotland, where we will spend the next 3-4 years, I am just wondering, just wondering, if I would actually miss the heat in Cebu when I sit in front of the heated room looking out to the constant cold rain in Aberdeen.

Are we all like that? Women, when we have long hair, we want short hair. After we cut it short, we immediately want to grow it out. Men, the to grow beard or not to grow beard question is always lurking, even though you think you are pretty clear about the answer. Wondering, just wondering, what would I look like, or other's response will be, if I grow a beard....

Jesus is powerless for two days

A display inside the Basilica de Santo Nino in Cebu.
Mary, the one of the left, was touched so much that the paint is peeled and the wood from underneath turns black. She is the one people wanted to touch and be blessed.


We have been seeing a lot of interesting Filipino Catholicism phenomena in the Philippines, e.g., we always see huge statues of Mary, but not of Jesus. Jesus, if we see him, is either a helpless little baby in the tender arms of Mary, or he is hanging on the cross, head bowed down and is also helpless. Mary is powerful, and of course, she is the mother of God. Jesus, on the other hand, according to a historian on Mary, had to receive permission before he went on the cross.

The phenomenon also shows up on the Filipino calendars, you almost cannot find one calender that is printed in the Philippines that has Easter Sunday marked, though Good Friday MIGHT be. The only calendars that have these days marked are imported calenders.

We went to a local church this morning (Easter Sunday), for 90 minutes, we heard something along the line of suffering and death of Jesus, towards the last two sentences, the preacher mentioned the resurrection of Jesus and how we should be happy that Jesus lives today.

A missionary who has been serving in the Philippines for 25 years wrote the following email to explain to us an essential part of how Filipino Catholics view Jesus and Easter.

Filipinos tend to restrict their activities during the Holy Week because they are afraid that something might happen to them.

I’ve personally experienced Filipino negative reaction to things during Holy Week. A number of years ago, I needed to have elective surgery done. It was scheduled during Holy Week because that was the first available time that the doctor could do surgery. The doctor was a follower of Christ, so she didn’t have any problem with my having surgery and I didn’t either. But when the nurse was gathering the information for pre-surgery, she was shocked that I would have elective surgery during Holy Week.

Another time, the Vista Verde church in Manila had a retreat during Holy Week. On the way home, there was an accident and several people were injured and one lady died from internal hemorrhaging. The lady was a strong believer, but her mom and family were strong Catholics. The body was put at the church for viewing. The next morning (Easter Sunday) the mom came into the church and yell at her son-in-law, and at the church people. Her daughter was going to be condemned to purgatory. She was inconsolable that day. The church held services every night during the week. The next Sunday was the funeral. Coming out of the church after the service, my friend heard the brother say to his sister, “Don’t be sad, we know where Cynthia is, she’s in heaven, but what about us? What will happen to us when we die." So during the week, their belief about eternal life changed.

The reason I share this is that maybe the issue with the Filipinos isn’t that they don’t believe in Jesus being both human and divine, but the issue is trying to correct the misconception here in this country that God dies every Good Friday. They may have gone too far the other way.

We are still struggling to understand how their theology has become what it is. It is difficult for us to grasp why Jesus is so small.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Bravo! Mr. Lewis

Atheism turns out to be too simple.
If the whole universe has no meaning, we should never have found out that it has no meaning...

Sunday, February 03, 2008

Obituary of the late Mr. Common Sense

My aunt forward this to me, though I would share:

Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as:


Knowing when to come in out of the rain; why the early bird gets the worm;
Life isn't always fair; and maybe it was my fault.


Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend more than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not children, are in charge).

His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.

Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children.
It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an Elastoplast to a student; but could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.
Common Sense lost the will to live as the Ten Commandments became contraband; churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims. Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.

Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realise that a steaming cup of coffee was hot!! She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.

Common Sense was preceded in death by his parents, Truth and Trust; his wife, Discretion; his daughter, Responsibility; and his son, Reason.

He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers; I Know My Rights, I Want It Now, Someone Else Is To Blame, and I'm A Victim.

Not many attended his funeral because so few realised he was gone.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Strange sight

We were bombarded by loud music again this pass weekend again. Ernie Manges, a missionary friend who is staying with us for two months, said the music was rarely that loud when he was a resident in the mission home for some years.

We were told by Maris and other missionaries that some people would move speakers as big as refrigerators on a flat bed truck, set them up in an open field somewhere, crank up the volume and charge people who would come and party.

It was Friday night, the music started at around 6:30pm, it went on until past midnight, though none of us, except, was able to sleep, we still managed to fall asleep around 4:00am. Ernie stayed up until the day broke, he said the music was still going at that time. Saturday night, the music started around the same time at night, same as the night before, it went on way in the wee hours of the night. By 2:30am, Dan was too curious to stay in bed, he decided to investigate where exactly the music came from.

I was worried about him going by himself, I am worried that he would confront the people, if he did, I am worried for his safety. I got out of bed to go with him, just to make sure he would not get out of the car.

We drove down the dimly lit streets, only a few cars was running, strangely, there were groups of young people walking down the street, even more people hanging around in front of closed stores.

We drove down a street where we heard the music coming, not far down this side street, we saw a bright disco ball, loud rap and disco type music was booming, under the street light, we saw three pigs, seemed like they were just slaughtered, someone was putting some sort of sauce on one of them, another preparing a fire over a big heap of charcoal, obviously, they are going to do a "lechon baboy" (grilled whole pig).

About 20 people were present, either sitting or standing, they were relatively motionless. There was no one dancing, no one partying at all!

We were starting to draw attention, even though we never stopped the car, we were just driving a bit slower than normal. We started to feel quite uneasy, we were definitely watched. We slowly turned around and went home. The music went on all night, it faded the Sunday morning at around 6:30am.

We of course asked Maris when she came to work Monday morning. She was not surprised by the lack of dancing and the slaughtered pigs. She said probably someone is going to have a baptismal ceremony on Sunday, that's why they are preparing the food the night before. "This is part of the fiesta." Maris said calmly.

Very interesting experience. Ernie said for the years he has been in the Philippines, he has always heard loud music, but never went investigate. "You have seen what I have not."

Monday, December 17, 2007

Journey to the Christian Faith

Catholic School
My parents have no religious beliefs, however, they sent me to the best school that they knew of in Hong Kong, which was a Catholic elementary school. I believed that there was a God, however, I had no personal relationship with him. Gradually God faded out of my life as I found more “important” things to do, like friendship, money and most of all: freedom, which I interpreted as “doing whatever that pleases me.”

In Taiwan
I went to Taiwan for my undergraduate degree and studied at the National Taiwan University where I had 4 Christian roommates. They actively shared the Gospel with me repeatedly over 3 years, but to no avail, or at least I thought. I was irritated by them and didn’t want anything to do with God, because I was certain that I would lose the freedom I enjoyed.

As a foreign literature major (i.e., non-Chinese literature), the Bible was one of the classics that I was asked to study. I learned how to appreciate the beautiful structure of the Bible, but it did not affect my inner spiritual being. Life was too short, I did not want to search for something that was so vague, I had to “seize the day” and enjoy it while I could.

The ‘Jesus Man’
I went back to Hong Kong to find work after graduation. By finding a good job I felt ready to take on the world. On the first day of work, the coworker who sat opposite me invited me to lunch. While at the restaurant, he bowed his head and prayed before he ate. I was so frustrated, thinking, “Oh, no, a Jesus Man.” I had just been relived of 4 Christians, now here I had stumbled into another one. My coworker said, “God was certainly pursuing you.”

The “Jesus Man” talked about Jesus all the time, he challenged me with the questions of life and death and gave me a lot of books to read. I showed some patience at first, but after a while, I told him not to talk about God anymore; he did not listen. Sometimes we got into heated debates and I told him that I had studied the Bible and had found nothing exciting in it, unlike what he claimed as the ‘Word of God’.

Studying Buddhism
I am the kind of person who is serious about life, though I wanted to do whatever I wanted, I thought about the meaning of life all the time. Since this Christian coworker has put the thought about life and death even more so in my mind, I decided to take a class in Buddhism. My father always said, “You are a Chinese, if you believe in anything at all, you have to believe in Buddhism.”

After one year of class in Buddhist philosophy, at the end of the last class, I was perplexed. I have been waiting for the master teacher to give a final conclusion about “Buddha the God”. But he never did. When I went up to him and asked him where was God in Buddhism, he smiled and said, “You got it, there is no god in Buddhism.” I was stunned and utterly disappointed.

WIthout my knowledge, God was slowly working to soften my heart. On my 1-year anniversary on the job, I pulled out from my drawer one of the many booklets that my coworker gave me, it happened that one was about the Last Days; I took it with me while I traveled to meet a friend by bus. I read the booklet and there on that crowded bus, the Holy Spirit moved me to surrender to his sovereignty. I followed the prayer that was printed in the back of the booklet and acknowledged Jesus Christ as my savior.

No church please
I did not attend church after I surrender to Jesus. My reason was that I knew I was a sinner and I did not want to hang around with other sinners; all I needed was to be with Jesus alone. My coworker knew full well my stubbornness and did not force me to go. However, he encouraged me to read the Bible. I started to read the Bible thinking I could develop a relationship with God all by myself. After 6 months I had read my way through most of the Bible. But one day I was reading John 13:34-35: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” I pondered these verses for a long time. Then I realized that I not only had to love Jesus, but also to develop relationships with his people. Though it was a difficult thing for me to do at that time, I realized that I needed to obey my Lord. Shortly after I started to attend church with my coworker.

To be in fellowship with brothers and sisters in Christ is one of the best things that has ever happen to me—fellowship was nothing like I had imagined. I now know so clearly that then I had a very crooked view about going to church. Now I enjoy the fellowship of brothers and sisters in Christ no matter where I am. I found myself growing in Christ much better with all those “sinners” around me.

Knowing what life is for
The biggest change that I have experienced since I acknowledged Christ as my savior, is that I now have a purpose in life, which is to glorify God with my whole being. I realize that the “freedom” that I was so afraid to lose was not freedom at all, it was just an aimless chasing of vanity. Jesus Christ has revolutionized my life, so much so that I went against the will of my parents and quit my job, in which I was doing quite well, in order to attend seminary. In the Chinese culture, going against the will of one’s parents is quite an unusual thing. But I recognized that God wanted me to serve him in a more serious capacity and that in order to do so I needed training!

It has been a many years since the day I prayed on that crowded bus, but I experience God’s grace abundantly everyday, especially through trials and difficult times. The Lord has shown me again and again how he keeps his promises, and that he honors his covenant with me. I thank Him for not giving up on me. He is truly unchangeable in his faithfulness!